December 2025​ ​

Story about dancing in communication with a Generator. Would you like to read it? ​

Recently, I received a voice memo from a Generator friend. She asked me why I had started the Human Design experiment. I felt invited to share, but I wasn’t sure whether the question was coming from her or from her mind. To check in with her, I sent a voice memo back with a closed question: “Do you want to hear why I started experimenting?” ​

I received a grateful voice memo in return. She was so happy that I had asked her this closed question. She had an uh-hun (no) to my question, and so it wasn’t correct for her to listen to the reason behind my experiments. I didn’t feel rejected at all, quite the opposite. It brought me a feeling of success. I had honored and respected her by checking in first to see whether she was open and had the energy to listen to me. ​

Stopping the talking and checking in with each other first is, to me, the ultimate form of respect. There is no resistance in the communication, there is only flow.​​​ ​